Does unconditional love exist in the world ? The answer is yes but it is not common because the unconditional only comes where conditions do not matter. Unconditional Love is the outcome of freedom from conditions. The one who is stable from within in all conditions can only love unconditionally otherwise if one is dependent on conditions then there can’t be unconditional love, it becomes dependent love which depends upon the conditions. Conditional love works only in favourable conditions whereas unconditional love works irrespective of conditions.
By default one’s love is conditional, one’s love becomes unconditional only when one becomes stable from within in all conditions. Until or unless one is stable from within, one cannot love unconditionally. To become stable in all conditions, one has to get detached from conditions. Detachment is freedom from conditions and is the basis of stability within. Detachment is not negative thing but the most positive thing in the world. One who is detached from conditions or results is stable in all conditions and can only make others stable when others get destabilised or imbalance. Completely detached person acts like a pillar who can help others become stable in their unfavourable conditions.
One who is attached to conditions cannot love unconditionally as there is no stability within . Stability is beyond superiority and inferiority complex. Stability is the highest state of being and is the outcome of spirituality. Spirituality unlocks the highest state of being and takes one closer to the true self. One who is aware about one’s true self can only become stable and love unconditionally. Till the time one identifies oneself with body, one lives in fear caused by boundary or limitations. Stability cannot comes in limitations or boundary because boundary is bound to change. Boundary or form cannot be the basis of stability. When one knows one’s true self as consciousness or formless or boundary-less operating through body or boundary, one gets detached from any boundary , forms or limitations and becomes stable in all conditions. The stability that comes from the understanding of the self as pure consciousness separate from body or boundary is the foundation of unconditional love. The root of detachment and stability is self-realisation .Unconditional love is the expression of a self-realised being. The love of self-realised being is unconditional because of stability within in all conditions. Self-realised beings respect or love others irrespective of conditions because they see the same self in all beings at different levels of consciousness. Others love are conditional whereas the love of self-realised beings is unconditional .The unconditional love is the power of self-realised beings with which they can heal anyone. A self-realised being does not work for love but from the Love within. Working for love is conditional whereas working from the love within is unconditional, pure and the complete. A Self-realised being does right with stability in all conditions which helps others follow the right path and eventually attain the state of unconditional love through self realisation.
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